
I’ve been having a few conversations recently with people who feel stuck. Not because they’re not doing anything, but because things just feel quiet. They’re building, they’re showing up, they’re doing the work but it feels like no one’s really seeing it. And I get it.
That feeling of being “unseen” can hit hard when you’re putting effort into something that means a lot to you. Especially in a world where it feels like everyone else is being celebrated for doing less, or getting opportunities you know you could do just as well if not better.
And I think what happens sometimes is, we start to tell ourselves stories about that silence. We think maybe we’re behind. Maybe we’re not as good as we thought. Maybe we missed our moment.
But here’s what I’ve realised - a lot of the time, we’re not late. We’re just in a quiet part of the process. We’re not behind, we’re just not loud right now.
There are phases in your journey where the most important shifts are happening in the background. You’re refining the idea, improving the craft, learning what actually matters. And those things don’t always come with applause.
The danger is when we mistake the silence for failure and then start moving from that place. We stop posting. We stop building. We stop reaching out. Not because we’ve quit, but because we’ve convinced ourselves that it’s not working.
But the truth is, most people quit just before the shift. And I don’t want that to be you.
You don’t need to blow today to be valid. You don’t need to be trending to be talented.
You just need to keep moving. Because consistency compounds even when no one’s watching. And when the time comes, all of that quiet work you’ve been doing? It’s going to speak loud.
So if this season feels slower than you hoped, I want you to remember:
You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re not falling off.
You’re just in the building phase.
Stick with it.
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